EP 042 Time Thieves Exposed: Reclaim Your 1440 Minutes for Greater Productivity and Success

Discover the brutal truth about time thieves and how they steal away your daily 1440 minutes, affecting your productive mindset habits and overall success mindset. In this episode, we expose why traditional time management systems often fall short and reveal how shifting your mindset and adopting habits for success are key to reclaiming your time and boosting productivity improvement. Learn from the Warren Buffett calendar strategy, which reshaped Bill Gates' approach to managing his day, and master a 5-step time reclamation system designed to overhaul your habits improvement and entrepreneurial self care. This episode is perfect for anyone eager to build authentic success habits, develop a self improvement mindset, and achieve entrepreneurial success habits. Take control of your time by implementing proven productivity habits like the Eisenhower Matrix and deep work blocks while embracing the idea that time management is truly identity management. Embrace these actionable strategies to transform your daily routine and unlock your ultimate potential through intentional habits improvement and achieving success habits.
The brutal truth about interruptions, distractions, and why you never have time for what matters
Episode Summary
Discover the brutal truth about time thieves and how they steal away your daily 1440 minutes, affecting your productive mindset habits and overall success mindset. In this episode, we expose why traditional time management systems often fall short and reveal how shifting your mindset and adopting habits for success are key to reclaiming your time and boosting productivity improvement. Learn from the Warren Buffett calendar strategy, which reshaped Bill Gates' approach to managing his day, and master a 5-step time reclamation system designed to overhaul your habits improvement and entrepreneurial self care. This episode is perfect for anyone eager to build authentic success habits, develop a self improvement mindset, and achieve entrepreneurial success habits. Take control of your time by implementing proven productivity habits like the Eisenhower Matrix and deep work blocks while embracing the idea that time management is truly identity management. Embrace these actionable strategies to transform your daily routine and unlock your ultimate potential through intentional habits improvement and achieving success habits.
Key Timestamps & Insights
[00:00 - 00:25] - The 1440 Minute Reality
[00:25 - 01:30] - The Time Management Lie Exposed
[02:50 - 04:15] - The Warren Buffett Calendar Story
[04:35 - 07:25] - The 5-Step Time Reclamation System
Step 1: Brutal Time Audit [04:40]
Step 2: Eisenhower Matrix Reality Check [05:50]
Step 3: Time Blocking [06:30]
Step 4: The Sacred No [07:00]
Step 5: Deep Work Blocks [07:20]
[07:45 - 08:30] - Parkinson's Law Application
[10:25 - 11:35] - Deep Work vs. Pomodoro Technique
[13:10 - 14:35] - The Deeper Paradigm: Time as Identity
[14:40 - 15:35] - Whiskered Wisdom: Investment vs. Spending
Strategies Shared
- The Brutal Time Audit System
- Eisenhower Matrix Application
- Strategic Time Blocking
- The Sacred No Technique
- 90-Minute Deep Work Blocks
Resources Mentioned
- Stephen Covey - "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
- Cal Newport - Deep Work concept and research
- Eisenhower Matrix - Presidential decision-making framework
- Parkinson's Law - Work expansion principle
- Ultradian Rhythm Cycles - 90-minute brain cycles research
- Pomodoro Technique - 25-minute focus method (contrasted with deep work)
Action Steps to Take
Immediate (This Week):
- Conduct brutal time audit for 7 days using 15-minute blocks
- Identify one important thing you "never have time for"
- Schedule 30 minutes tomorrow for that priority
- Practice saying "I'm not available" to one non-essential request
Ongoing Implementation:
- Apply Eisenhower Matrix to all tasks and commitments
- Implement Sunday weekly planning and evening daily planning
- Create 2-3 daily 90-minute deep work blocks
- Protect scheduled priorities like your most important meetings
Identity Shift:
- Recognize time management as identity management
- View time as your most valuable, non-renewable resource
- Design your life intentionally rather than surviving reactively
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Key Quotes
"You don't have a time problem. You have a priority problem disguised as a time problem."
"I can buy anything I want, basically, but I cannot buy time." - Warren Buffett
"You can't save time, but you can invest it."
"How you spend your time is how you spend your life. And how you spend your life is who you become."
"If it's not scheduled, it doesn't exist."
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You have exactly 1,440 minutes today.
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That's it.
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No more, no less.
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And what I'm about to tell you will
change your time management forever.
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Right now, this very second, as
you're listening to this, about
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51% of those minutes are about to
vanish into tasks and add zero value.
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To your life, the average person
gets interrupted like 60 times a
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day, and that is gonna result in
about 25 minutes of loss, loss
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of focus after each distraction.
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Meanwhile, you're gonna be telling
yourself that you don't have time
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for the gym, you don't have time
for your favorite side project.
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You don't have time to learn that skill
that's gonna elevate your business
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or your life, or even you don't have
time to have a real conversation.
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That's someone you love.
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But what if I told you that
the problem isn't time?
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It's that you have been lied to
about how time actually works, your
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success, DNA podcast, your success.
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Is in your DNA, what is
up, what is up, what is up?
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My fellow Success Secrets.
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Welcome to another episode of Your
success, DNA, that podcast for my
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aspiring, striving folks out there,
entrepreneurs, moms and dads,
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nine to five escapees, just folks
that wanna elevate their life.
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And so if that's you, you
have come to the right place.
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'cause here each episode is gonna
deliver some mindset shifts, some
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habit upgrades, all mixed, a little
dose of rebellion so that you can
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break free from the convention.
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Build a life aligned with
your version of success.
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And if you happen to know someone who
dreams of ditching the grind or and
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making themselves a little bit better
through some self-help, some personal
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development, you might want to go
ahead and forward this episode to them.
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Okay?
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So today we're gonna be exposing the
biggest slide that you have been told.
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About time management, we've, we've all
dived into all those time management
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books and courses and seminars and
whatever, and I'm gonna show you exactly
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where your 1,440 daily minutes actually
disappear and how you can get them back.
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First, I'm gonna reveal the shocking
statistics about how the average
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person actually spends their day.
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Including why you're losing over half
of your productive hours in meaningless
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activities that someone else out there.
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As decided were important.
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You'll discover why your brain can
only focus for 12 minutes at a time,
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and what this means for everything
you're out there trying to accomplish.
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Second, we're gonna dive into the
real reason Warren Buffet's calendar
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was almost always empty while Bill
Gates was drowning in meetings and
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how this one single insight changed
Gates' entire approach to success.
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And you're gonna learn why the
busiest people out there are often.
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It's the least productive and how you
can flip this script in your own life.
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And then third, I'm gonna walk you through
the exact system that allows you to make
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time for everything that actually matters.
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Whether that's building a business
or getting in shape or finding the
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one you love, or if you already
found them, spending some time with
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them, learning new skills, or just
having a little space to think, this
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is not another productivity hat.
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It is a complete reframe
of how time actually works.
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Alright, so once again, here's
a controversial truth that I
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don't think anybody wants to
admit or even wants you to know.
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You my friend, do not have a time problem.
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You do, however, have a priority problem
that is disguised as a time problem.
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Now stick with me here.
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Lemme tell you about two of the richest,
most successful people on the plant having
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a conversation that changed everything.
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Warren Buffett.
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Yeah.
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You know the name and if you don't just
research it, you'll learn all about him.
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One of the wealthiest men in history
once showed Bill Gates' calendar Gates
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later recalled be completely shocked
because there was nothing on it.
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There were like four
entries maybe by April.
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Buffett said casualty.
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Meanwhile, bill Gates admitted
that he used to pack every single
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minute of his schedule sinking.
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It showed how serious and how
important he was to the world.
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His calendar looked like
a little game of Tetris.
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Every blog was filled.
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No space to breathe inside there anywhere.
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Buffet told him, look, I can buy
anything I want basically, but build.
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I cannot buy time.
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That conversation hit gates
like a lightning bolt.
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He realized he'd been confusing.
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Being busy with being productive.
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You controlled your time.
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Gates is later quoted it, saying it's not
a proxy of your seriousness that you have
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to fill every minute of your schedule.
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Yeah, think about that for a second.
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Two of the most successful people
alive today, one of them had to
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teach the other that an empty
calendar is not a sign of laziness.
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It can be a sign of clarity.
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So here's what's really
happening in your life right now.
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You, my friend, are drowning in
other people's urgencies while your
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own priorities suffocate alone.
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In the corner, you are so busy
responding to the world that
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you never get a minute to create
anything meaningful in that world.
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Yeah.
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Alright, so let me give you the
exact system that you can use to
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reclaim 1,440 minutes starting today.
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Okay, step number one, let's
do a brutal time audit.
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In so many of these episodes that
I will give you and I have given
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you, this is always the first step.
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Whether you're trying to build a
relationship, find a relationship, build
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a business, make yourself better, the
first thing you are ever gonna have to do.
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Be brutally honest with yourself.
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So for the next week, I want
you to track every single thing
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that you do in 15 minute blocks.
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I know how it sounds.
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It sounds a little obsessive, but
you can't manage what you haven't
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measured or what you don't measure.
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Most people have absolutely zero
idea where their time actually goes.
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They may have an inkling where they
think it goes, but where they think
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it goes probably somewhere else.
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They think they're working
productively for eight hours.
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When they're really probably getting in
about three hours of meaningful work.
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Yeah, that's just the reality.
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You may be a little different,
but track yourself and find out.
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Use your phone's, notes,
app or a simple notebook.
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Grab yourself a journal, whatever
it is, and then every 15 minutes
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or so write down what you just did.
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You should remember the
last 15 minutes, right?
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Don't judge it.
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Don't try to optimize it.
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Well, not yet anyway.
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Just observe.
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And let me be honest with you,
you are probably gonna be shocked
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at what it is you discover.
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Okay?
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Now that brings us to step
number two, and this is the
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Eisenhower Matrix reality check.
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Yep.
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President Eisenhower here.
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Okay, so let's take everything from
your time audit, and we're gonna
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sort that into four categories, okay?
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Some of you would be familiar
with these categories.
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Category number one is
the urgent and important.
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These are real crisises and
deadlines that really matter to you.
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Category number two is the
important but not so urgent.
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These are like your goals, your
relationships, your health.
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Hello.
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Alright, and you're learning still
important but not quite as urgent.
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And then group number three is
gonna be urgent but not important.
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These are often things like other
people's emergencies, most meetings
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that you have to go to and those ever
peppering interruptions that you get.
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And then group number four.
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Yeah, you know where I'm going with this.
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It's neither urgent nor important.
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These my friends, are your time oysters.
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They include mindless scrolling, busy
work that you do yourself, whatever it is.
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Okay?
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There's a whole host of things in here.
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Here's a key insight I
want you to think about.
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You should only work on
those first two categories.
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Boom, mic drop.
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I could end this episode right now,
but we're not going to everything else.
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Should be delegated automated ai hello
or deleted entirely out of your life.
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Just get it right outta there.
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Don't even worry about it, and
open up that space in your mind.
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There's a DIS decision making
framework, which was originally
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developed by President Eisenhower and
later popularized by the ever popular
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Stephen Covey in his uh, seven Habits
for Highly Effective People book,
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which I read a couple of times now.
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This framework will completely transform.
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How you see your tasks
and what you do with them.
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And here's another key insight
I wanna leave you with.
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You should only work again
in those top two categories.
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Everything, every single damn
thing should be delegated,
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automated, or deleted entirely.
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And I know I said that twice.
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That's how important it is.
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Most people out there are gonna spend
80% of their time in those bottom two
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damn categories, and then wonder why
they never make any progress on what
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actually matters to them and their lives.
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I want you to remember Parkinson's
law here, work will expand to
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fill the time that you have
available for its completion.
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It will, the work will expand
to fill the time that you
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have available for completion.
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If you say, I've got three
weeks to do it, guess what?
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It's probably gonna take
you two weeks and six days.
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Or it might take you three
weeks and two days, right?
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But if you said, I only have
a week to do it, guess what?
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You'll probably do it within seven
or eight days, maybe even six.
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Okay.
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So let's go to step number three.
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You're gonna do some time blocking,
but you're gonna time block
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like your life depends on it.
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I want you to stop creating a to-do list.
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I still have them, but follow me here.
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I want you to start scheduling every
single minute of your day in advance.
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This isn't about being rigid.
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No, this is about being intentional.
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I want you to sit down, let's
say on Sunday, and plan your
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entire week Monday through the
following Sunday, every evening.
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Then plan your next day and block
out time for your priorities.
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First, you wanna do this first
before the rest of the world
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starts laying claim on your hours.
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If it's not scheduled, guess what?
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It doesn't even exist.
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If you want to work out, block out a
time for it and say, I'm gonna work out
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Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 3:00
AM whatever time it is for you, right?
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3:00 PM If you wanna learn
something new, block out the time.
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You know what?
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I'm gonna work on learning German on
Tuesday and Thursday between 12 and noon.
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Okay, now you're there.
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If you wanna work on that
project, that side hustle, that
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personal development project.
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Block out the time, like
your life depends on it.
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That brings us to step number four.
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The step number four is the sacred,
no short little word, two letters.
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Very important.
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This is the most important skill you
my friends, are ever gonna develop.
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Saying no to almost
everything, so you can say yes.
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To what really matters.
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Every yes to one thing is an automatic
no to everything else you could be
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doing with that same period of time.
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You need to start treating your
time like it's finite, right?
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It's a precious resource.
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It really is.
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It.
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I was sitting at a convention.
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A couple of decades ago, and someone
kinda laid this out for me, I
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can remember who the speaker was.
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He said, I don't have 50 years as an
example in front of him, he said, let's
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say I go and visit my dad once a year,
and we go on a hunting trip every year.
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Why don't have 50 years ago
on hunting trips with my dad?
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I have 50 more times
available to go hunting.
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You almost look at it a little
differently that way, don't you?
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So you need to start treating
your time like it is finite.
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'cause it is.
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'cause one day you're gonna wake up
and go, oh shit, I'm 63 years old.
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What the hell?
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So I want you to practice saying,
well that sounds interesting,
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but I'm not available.
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Because here's the thing, ladies and
gentlemen, you do not owe anyone an
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explanation for protecting your own time.
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Okay?
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And that brings us to our last step here.
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Step number five, deep block works.
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Here's the thing, research shows that our
brains work in roughly 90 minutes cycles.
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And this is all brain based off your
brain's natural ultra Dion rhythm cycles.
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Alright?
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This is what.
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Productivity experts like, like
Cal Newport calls deep work.
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We talk about deep work
in a previous episode.
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The this deep work is the ability
to focus without distraction on
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a cognitively demanding task.
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That's how Cal describes it.
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So this is where you're gonna spend
some really hyper-focused time,
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not being distracted by anything.
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As your phone is off, you close
the door, it's just you and
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what it is you're working on.
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And this is something that's gonna
require your little mental engine
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going for a while there, right?
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So what you're going to wanna do is
schedule two to three deep work blocks per
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day where you focus on one important task.
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No distractions whatsoever.
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Close the door, take the phone off the
hook, turn your phone off, whatever it
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takes so that you can focus on those
Couple of things in those top two
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categories we now talked about earlier.
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Unlike the Pandero techniques,
you know, those 25 minute burst
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techniques, deep work requires.
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A full 90 minute block so that you
can achieve a true flow state and
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really get shit done in amazing ways.
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Those 25 minute block bristles, palm
andro techniques, they're great.
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They, they do have some benefits.
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I'm not gonna slight them, but what
I'm saying, and if you really wanna
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get into that flow state, you can
have to dedicate a little bit of time.
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Get on in there.
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So if you schedule it.
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All right.
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Again, turn off those notifications,
close the unnecessary tabs on
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your computer screen so you're
not even, they're not even like
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teasing you off on the edge there.
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Put your phone in another room.
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Don't even bother about turning it off.
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Just go ahead and put it in another
room and then work for 90 minutes.
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Once you've done those 90 minutes,
give yourself a 15 or 20 minute break.
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Just totally step away.
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Let your eyes look at something else.
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Let your brain see something else.
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But during those blocks, trust me, if you
do this, you'll accomplish more than most
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people do in an entire eight to 12 hour
a day of scattered, interrupted work.
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Okay, so here's why I think this
matters at, at a much deeper level time.
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My friends is the only truly
Democratic resource out there.
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Rich or poor, young or old,
successful or struggling, we all
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get the same 1,440 minutes per day.
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I don't care where you're at.
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So everyone gets it.
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It's not like, I don't, I I
get $10 and he gets $10,000.
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No, no.
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I get 1,440 minutes and
he gets 1,440 minutes.
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Okay?
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But here's what most
people are gonna miss.
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Time is not about productivity.
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It's about identity.
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How you spend your time is
how you spend your life.
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And how you spend your life
is who you end up becoming.
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So when you're constantly reacting to
other people's priorities day in and day
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out, you're not just being unproductive.
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You are literally becoming someone
else's version of who you should be.
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The bigger paradigm here is
it's about reclaiming your.
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Agency in a world that has designed
itself to steal your attention.
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All the apps on this little device right
here, all the little tools and techniques
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and tricks on your computer, even AI is
designed to steal your attention away.
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Every app, every notification, every
quote, unquote urgent request is
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competing for your most valuable
asset, and most people are just
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giving it away willy-nilly for free.
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All just.
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Passing it out like
candy bars at Halloween.
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This isn't just about getting more done.
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Like I said earlier, it's about
becoming the person who has the
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time and the space to think, to
create, to connect, and to grow.
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It's about designing a life
instead of just surviving in one.
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Okay, so all that said, let me give
you your whisker wisdom for today.
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You can't save time.
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Nope, but you can't invest it.
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Every minute you spend on something
that does not align with your
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values and your goals is a minute
that you will never, ever get back.
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However, on the flip side, every
minute that you invest in what truly
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matters to you, compounds in your life
over time, so your specific action
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for this week, I want you to pick one
thing that's important to you, but
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you never seem to have time for it.
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Okay.
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Maybe it's exercise.
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Maybe it's learning a new skill.
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Maybe it's just sitting down with
that person you hold most dear.
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Maybe it's working on a creative
project, or maybe it's just having a real
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conversation with the people that you
love and care about whatever it's, and
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then schedule 30 minutes for it tomorrow.
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Don't schedule it for when you have time.
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Schedule the time.
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Say That is the time we're doing it.
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Put it on your calendar like it's the
most important meeting of your day.
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You know what?
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It is the most important
meeting of your day.
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You just decided it.
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Boom, there it is.
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And protect those 30 minutes.
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Like your life depends on it,
because in a very real sense it does.
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Because look, you're gonna get 1,440
minutes tomorrow, whether you plan on
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getting them, plan on using them or not.
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The question becomes,
are you gonna spend them?
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Or are you gonna invest them?
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The most successful people are
not the ones who have more time.
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They are the ones who are very intentional
with the time they're already given.
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They've learned that being busy is
not the same as being productive,
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and that being productive is
not the same as being fulfilled.
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You have everything you need to make
time for everything you know matters.
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You just have to decide
that it's worth protecting.
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So stop waiting for time to just
magically appear out of the air.
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You can't pull that rabbit outta the hat.
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Start creating it by saying no to what
does not matter, and saying yes to what
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does the life you want is waiting and
it's waiting for you to make time for it.
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And with that, I'm gonna leave
you as I always do, think
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successfully and take action.







